Insecurity is one of the greatest blocks to Health and Happiness
What are the Signs of an Insecure person?
1. They always find fault in others
This is the only way they justify their own wrong judgments and behaviors towards others.
2. They always want to have the last word
The fear of losing their respect and being dominated by others triggers negative reactions in them. This makes them hold the attitude, 'my way or the highway.'
3. They will never acknowledge their mistakes or accept their faults
The fear of losing all they have and appearing weak and vulnerable will often get them into ugly arguments with others.
4. They are constantly revengeful
They will go to any extent to hurt others and are always looking for opportunities to bring others down. This is the psychological way to seek revenge for all the wrongs done to them in the past.
Observe yourself, see if you recognize any of these in yourself to some degree. Remind yourself that insecurity does not make you a bad person, it however needs to be overcomed for you to lead a happy and successful life. it will affect your health and eventually isolate you from the rest of the world. Your energy will make people want to stay away from you. Seek help from others to deal with the problem. Work on forgiving others. Focus on love.
On the other hand, if you identify such people in your own environment who may be wanting to do harm to you, bless them. send them love daily. Remember they are weak and broken from within, they have absolutely no power to bring your down. Truth is the most powerful force in the world. Stand by your truth and God will stand by you. Do not fear anyone. Trust the Power within you to guide you and guard you.
Wishing you the very best
Dr. Karishma Ahuja